THIS IS A RANT. AS YOU KNOW I’M NOT AFRAID OF CONTROVERSY SO IF YOU’RE EASILY OFFENDED STOP READING NOW! I DO NOT SUGARCOAT LIFE!
Whole Lotta Blockin’ Going On!!
First and Foremost I want to Thank Everyone who has Followed me especially in the Last few months. I feel honored that so many folks Love my writing and photography. Usually I try to Follow and Subscribe in return however if your blog is not in English I am unable to do so as English is the only language I read, write and speak fluently. Eventually once I retire in Summer/Fall of 2018 then I will take on improving my Spanish but in the meantime I only subscribe to websites and blogs written in English. Sorry Peoples!
Lately I’ve noticed an uptick in obscenity, sex requests, foul language, and other unsavory pics and posts on Instagram, Tumblr, Twitter and other social media sites. As we all know Facebook leads the way in terms of wackos and perverts! Just know that if that’s your thing, keep it to yourself. Guys Do Not post photos of your package like former politician Anthony Weiner (yes that is his real name). No Woman with good sense wants to have any type of relationship with a man who posts his private parts on dating websites. That’s why they are called Private parts. Ladies the same goes for you also. Keep you sex life and curves reserved only for your husband/wife or Lover. Intimate moments are supposed to be between you and the one you claim to Love not the entire Twitterverse or all your so-called Facebook friends!
Do not share your sexual perversions with me because I will Block you on all my social media sites!
Yes like most people I do curse. Usually out of frustration. Anger. I’m normal. But unless I’m having a fight with someone I do not curse at people. I do my best to avoid altercations but if you come for me I’m ready! Don’t mess with someone who served in the military!
Male or female Get Ready for a Beat down! Bring it! As we used to say Back in the Day, “Your Mouth Shouldn’t write checks that your ass can’t cash.” I may be small in stature but I am Fierce especially when I get angry! So Don’t sleep on the size!
Those of your who have been following my blog for any length of time know that I work in a department that is mostly male and I have been sexually harassed in my workplace. Also Last March I had a verbal altercation with the manager of my brother’s group home which entailed me having to curse her out then call her boss. She stepped to me and I brought the pain. The male co-worker who attempted to assault me a few years ago also felt my wrath. Sometimes Life gets downright nasty, ugly and dangerous so you must be prepared to defend yourself as well as your Loved ones.
Also characters in my poetry, prose, short stories may curse because that is part of their personality and pertains to the story. However I try to be on my best behavior if possible.
There is a time and place for everything. If you wish to expose yourself or solicit for sex then get your own personal website where you may post to your hearts content/delight. Do not send me any nudity nor solicitations for sex.
Facebook as far as I know restricts folks from posting certain types of content. How well this works I’m not sure. However you will never see photos of me nude! That’s just out of order and out of line especially for a woman of my age. Sexy photos. Yes. Naked pictures. No.
Just a word to my Sister Friends over 50. After my GYN exam in March I had a frank talk with my doctor HIV/AIDS is fastest growing in the Female 50+ demographic. Why? Because men over 50 have the same sexual behaviors they had in their teens, 20s & 30s. Meaning they have multiple sexual partners. This includes Married men also. They are cheating and spreading. As a male co-worker once said, “My Wife is married but I’m not.”
Dating to me means going out and having a good time with my clothes on. I guess that’s why I don’t have many dates because once guys realize I’m not putting out they go onto the next woman with their con games. However I’m older, wiser and it is no sweat off my nose. As much as I would like companionship I’m not about to cast aside my morals and values to do so. Fellas if all you’re interested in is that thing, a roll in the hay or the horizontal tango Talk to the Hand Cause the Face ain’t Listening!!
Never Gonna Get!!
Virtuous if not perfect Woman.
En Vogue – My Lovin’ (Never Gonna Get It) (1992)
Lauryn Hill – Doo-Wop (That Thing) (Official Video)